Have you tried to just stay in a place for several years and when you want to do things on your own, you cannot do it? I bet, it will just okay for you if you will just stay in such place for few days or a month, I am sure, it will still be okay for you! But what if you are there for years and every time you want to do something or you want to buy something, you will be hesitant of telling that you want this and that? What will you do if you will encounter such things? Just a question though! Peace!