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Forgiving others

Forgive anyone who has caused you pain or harm.
Keep in mind that forgiving is not for others. It is for you.
Forgiving is not forgetting. It is remembering without anger.
It frees up your power, heals your body, mind and spirit.
Forgiveness opens up a pathway to a new place of peace to you.
Where you can persist despite what has happened.
– Les Brown

The one who has a free time or the one who frees their time for you

You have to understand between someone who speaks to you on their free time and someone who frees their time to speak with you. 
In that way, you will know how important you are to the person who can free their time just to speak with you.  Probably, if you will find a person like that, you will know that you are not only important to them but they also have love and acceptance for you.  Now you have to choose who?